“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” — Mingon McLaughlin
The article is not about greatest wedding experts like Dr.John Gottman Charles Darwin or Winifred M. Reilly because love is quite expensive these days and is quite difficult to be described in a theoretical lingo.
We are here to describe what a mango man feels about happy married life. Nowadays, “single or in a relationship” are just few price tags on Facebook or Twitter. We need to manage it mechanically. I feel marriage is a bonding of hearts where two souls like hubby and wifey get unified in a dimensional paradox. The relationship gets a diamond polish when we add on some non-negotiable top ups like love and unconditional sense of humor. Love minus expectation accelerates the process further. For many, marriage brings fortune and maturity.
Hence it’s a real eye-opener to all. Happy and caring couples need to master the following strategies to make their conjugal life sharper and taller. Men will always be men. They never grow old because age is just a number. On the contrary, women always live their lives in rewind. These days, the term “everlasting or forever with you” is only found in Oxford or Penguin. Since rising divorce rates and separations are becoming Pyaar Ka Punchnama, we need to be too careful in our married lives which always require a second chance. Happy couples are like jelly fish and acquamarine. Fishermen have no chance!
The couples need to tackle the common problems of marriage in uncommon ways which are listed below:
The Real Strategist
One ought to treat his or her papa or mama in law with a greater sense of respect that’s the only theory to spark this relationship. Moreover give some breathing space to your better half. There might be many pros and cons of this chained freedom. Still married couples need to enjoy each other’s company. Bond with the in laws-is the real mind game.
If communication is lacking in heart links then a relationship will not be able to flourish .So the couples should spend some good times with each other where anything can be shared.
Dignity wala Love
You might be married to someone but you can’t act like a landlord. You need to understand each other’s sentiments and try to illuminate dignified affection and caring. After all you are not the boss as you are in office! Forgetting past, politeness, expressing yourself, companionship, intimacy, compliments, no criticism, trust, sex are some of the Valentine Gifts in a marriage portfolio.15 minutes a day – will keep the counselor at bay.
Learn from Bollywood
There are so many instances of love and heart breaks in the Bollywood tabloid because fortune is decided every Friday .In spite of all odds, you would find happy star couples like SRK-Gouri, Ajay-Kajol, Big B-Jaya, Ash-Abhi, Akshaya-Twinkle who are eternally happy and successful in marriages. There is no rocket science. You have focus on priorities of your spouse. Get a pleasure in doing your role even if you are getting same in return. Give love-get love is the 50-50 marriage formula. Avoid negative people and things like “EMA”-the Rogue Devil.
Being humble or down to earth is never a symbol of your weakness. It’s a kind triggered diplomacy. Honesty is required and it is quite normal if you compromise first. Don’t be like people behaving as babies in your marital relationship. Don’t just lose your cool, get tips from Lord Krishna.
Finance, Autonomy, Flexibility, and Tours
Both you and your spouse need to take a joint decision when it comes the factors cited in this sub-headline.Stay transparent in every term because both are substitutes and/or replacements to each other while managing the marriage box. Don’t the three magical words “I Love You” to die.
It’s okay to be labeled as Mr. Anti-Romantic
Love-here, there, everywhere. Try to be romantic even if you are an anti-hero in romance. Celebrate every occasion with your spouse.Don’t forget special occasions.These are some of the jargons which the married couples sometimes forget due to work pressures. But still, try to have a little fight and enjoy the fight too. It can ensure better emotional bonding.Don’t let your practical love gone even if you don’t express.It should be always there in your heart.
(Romantic Warning: The above article is not a thumb rule. Happiness in Marriage may be different for Jodi Breakers and Jodi Makers )
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