In my manifesting journey, the one thing I have been repeatedly learning everywhere is, “Detachment” – the most vital ingredient to manifest anything that which you want. Yes, you practically cannot get anything that you crave unless you are detached from your desires. Sounds paradoxical? But, that’s what the real deal is!
Detachment and Manifesting: Why Detachment???
Detachment from the ‘result’ you desire is very important when it comes to manifesting something that you want desperately. Well, because attachment to anyone or anything turns belief into doubt and love into fear. When you are attached to your desire very strongly you tend to live in a cloak of fear. Next, you constantly ponder whether it will materialize in reality or not, due to which you are trapped in a continuous state of scarcity.
Now if you are wondering if detachment is giving up on your dreams and desires, you need to relax. Well, because detaching yourself from your desire doesn’t equate to giving up. By detachment, you are not giving up your dreams or desires, but the anxiety, stress, impatience, and nervousness attached to it.
The moment you are attached to a certain outcome you give away your power to external forces and circumstances. There is a desperate need to control the process which leads to not just doubt but also fears. Attachment to the outcome is nothing but watching the pot boil and we all know very well that a watched pot never boils.
Detachment Transmutes Desire into Choice and Gives Birth to Faith
When you desire someone or something, you directly acknowledge its absence in your life. This is the reason why your ‘desire’ keeps you away from achieving your ‘desire’. On the contrary, when you are detached from the outcome or in other words not so obsessed about it, your desire becomes your ‘choice’. The moment your desire turns into your choice, you elevate yourself from the state of lack and scarcity to the state of abundance.
Interestingly, detachment also takes away the feeling of doubt as well as fear as your focus and attention is not on the outcome. Getting away from these two feelings have a strong sense of certainty which builds a foundation of faith within ourselves.
Now faith doesn’t mean to sit back and hope that things could be different. It is to keep calm, stay aware and believe that your “intention” has already manifested in the mental realm. How do you do this? Well, by taking inspired actions so that your “intention” materializes in the physical world. Faith is neither blind nor visionless. In fact, it is a signal of things not seen. It is a strong gut feeling that assures, if you A-S-K, you will R-E-C-I-E-V-E.
Detachment and Manifestation: How to Start?
In order to detach yourself from the outcome of your desire and/or wish, the first and foremost step is to get away from the state of resistance. After all, what you resist, persists. However, when you detach yourself (either by diverting your mind, meditating or staying indifferent towards the outcome by learning various techniques), you uplevel yourself from the state of resistance to total non-resistance. At this stage, all your panic transforms into peace and concern shapes into certainty.
If you have ever wondered why other people manifest in the shortest period of time unlike you, it is only because they are in the state of non-resistance, a byproduct of detachment. When you are detached, things fall in place automatically and manifestation is nothing but a gentle game of life.
Lisa Vaz, the owner of a popular Facebook group, ‘The Study of Reality’ through her class Manifest My Way have been teaching the real technique on how to manifest desires. Interestingly, she talks at length about not just detachment in manifestation but also about how to detach in order to manifest. It is because of her methods and techniques that I along with others could transform our obsession into detachment to manifest that which we wanted badly – specific money, job, relationship, dream home etc in the shortest period of time.
Yes, because, when you detach yourself from the outcome of your desire, you send a message to the source that you know it is going to happen and you trust the process. Your confidence, faith, and your strong belief start shifting your reality in no time and lets you manifest in no time.